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I think perhaps it is best for me to relegate my kink activities to strictly play and not try to cross the line into a long-term relationship. There are very few white men who are truly anti-racist, and when I encounter them, I exalt them as extraordinary and rare. I�ve yet to meet a white male in the kink community, submissive or dominant, who has evolved past the inherent and inherited sense of superiority and erroneous privilege that has been bestowed upon them by virtue of their genitals, (however pathetic their inferior appendage might be) and their skin color. When I remove myself from these types of forums and I spend time on anti-racist forums where individuals are committed to divesting themselves of white male privilege, I�m encouraged, I�m energized. I think it�s foolish of me to try to look for a veritable needle in a haystack by continuing to search for a partner within the kink community when I don�t consider kink a necessity in my life. I don�t have a need to dominate anyone, it�s not a drive or compulsion, it�s simply a form of entertainment, an erotic diversion. I would much prefer to dedicate my time in searching for a like-minded very vanilla partner whom I can love and be loved by without any power exchange or kink whatsoever.

With that being said, I�m going to go back to my old, tried and true requirements for a play partner. I�m looking for someone intelligent, not whiney or overly apologetic, someone with diverse vanilla interests with whom I can share convergent and crossover similarities. I seek someone who is bisexual, who enjoys sucking a big old black dick and/or getting fucked by a real man without the offensive pretense of being forced or raped. If you want to wear panties or stockings, that�s fine but it�s certainly not a requirement. I�m not into men who like to dress as women or elaborate latex, rubber, extreme bondage, or adult babies. My domination is psychological and mental so don�t expect me to wear some elaborate costume. I�m not a sadist I don�t get pleasure from inflicting pain but I�m very interested in the concept of inflicting pain on men who experience it as pleasure. I�m completely inexperienced in this area so some level of tolerance is required.

Because of my current circumstances, I�m really looking for someone local who has the ability to travel to meet me and obtain a local hotel room for play. As before, meeting in a very public place first for dinner or drinks is a requirement. I�m not of the mindset that if I meet someone and there is no chemistry or if the connection doesn�t work out, or even if they chicken out at the last minute, that I can then deem them a fake or belittle them as being insincere. Men who are submissive have a whole host of insecurities and fears that they can�t or won�t acknowledge. That means, in many instances, they self-sabotage and generally fuck up because they are uncomfortable in their own submissive skin. I also understand that I am intimidating to a great many subs, they fear me because I make them look at themselves in a different light.

Succinctly, and ideally, I�m looking for someone who can be my regular play partner, someone with whom I can share dinner and drinks and conversation in public and perversion behind closed doors.

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